tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5162829547026802129.post2665756553883837947..comments2024-03-04T01:11:34.809-07:00Comments on Jane In Her Infinite Wisdom: Make It StayJust Janehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/02861216483398553225noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5162829547026802129.post-47270334322273549082011-03-12T16:57:14.810-07:002011-03-12T16:57:14.810-07:00Beautifully put, Sweet Kristin. Isn't growing ...Beautifully put, Sweet Kristin. Isn't growing up grand? xoJust Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02861216483398553225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5162829547026802129.post-71786665307801841552011-03-12T10:30:08.146-07:002011-03-12T10:30:08.146-07:00Lots of wisdom in that post! I just recently came ...Lots of wisdom in that post! I just recently came to several of those revelations, myself, so it's nice (and helpful) to hear you spell things out so clearly. It's amazing how much easier "love" is when I'm able to enjoy whom I can, for however long I can, without expectations or false hopes. People, in general, (friends and/or lovers) have so much to contribute, and I think that being able to appreciate what they bring to the present, at the moment, makes the amount of time the relationship lasts, or changes in the state of the relationship - from lovers to friends, for example- less devastating. Thanks for your wisdoms! :)Kristinnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5162829547026802129.post-46691381688789137112011-03-11T06:03:22.065-07:002011-03-11T06:03:22.065-07:00Michael: It was - is - an ongoing process along wi...Michael: It was - is - an ongoing process along with a series of revelations. The short answer is this...<br /><br />I know who I am and I keep that for myself nor lose sight of it. I also no longer assume love will stay beyond today. If I want it to stay, I try to do what I can to make it stay, with the understanding that, no matter what I do, it may not always be there.Just Janehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/02861216483398553225noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-5162829547026802129.post-919600468562120742011-03-11T04:52:12.179-07:002011-03-11T04:52:12.179-07:00"I'm no longer completely devastated when..."I'm no longer completely devastated when a relationship changes or ends. I no longer think in terms of black and white..."<br /><br />How'd you get to this point? Was it something you did, a process, or just a revelation one morning in between spoonfuls of Wheaties? I've been running for over 15 years now and I know better, I do, but I can't seem to get to that realization. Great post, BTW! I like the Tom Robbins quote, never heard it before.Michaelhttp://www.michaelsfishbowl.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com