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Monday, July 05, 2010

The Secret Garden

When I was a little girl - around 7 or 8 - my mother read The Secret Garden by Frances Hodgson Burnett aloud to my sister and me over the course of several weeks.

It quickly became one of my favorite novels and has remained so 30 years later. Partly because it's a sweet little story but also because I have the loveliest memories of that first reading curled up in my twin bed with Mom in the middle and Jenni and I on either side.

22 years ago, my mom and I moved to Cheyenne. I was chock full o' teen angst and I hated this new place and my new school. But the house she chose - the one in which she still lives - nearly made up for all my putridity.

The house, situated on the corner of the busiest intersection in town, is a little brick cottage in the oldest neighborhood with a nice sized backyard surrounded by an 8-foot privacy fence.

If you didn't know to look for it, you likely wouldn't notice it and, if you did happen to notice it, you wouldn't think twice about it or wonder about the people who lived there.

The backyard wasn't much to look at when we first moved in. There were old lilac bushes lining the fence and some plum trees but the previous owners hadn't done much in the way of landscaping.

Over the years though, my mother, who loves to garden, has spent thousands of dollars and hundreds of hours tending to that yard and has transformed it into a magical place with Aspen trees, wild roses, lilies from her father's garden at her childhood home in Virginia, tulips, iris, begonias, and any number of other plants of various colors. About the only foliage that remains from the previous owners are the plum trees which insist on blooming and producing fruit nearly every year.

There is a statue of St. Francis of Assisi - patron saint of animals - watching over the place where we scattered the ashes of one beloved dog, Joan. There is a bird bath and a bird house and robins recently built a little nest in which to hatch their spring babies.

It is my most favorite place in the world.

It is magic.

When I talk about my mom's backyard and tell people it's a magic place, most are skeptical.

However, I know not one person - family or friend - who has spent time in that backyard and not come away feeling like they've been touched by a special place.

It is a sanctuary. It is safe.

It is secret.

Sitting out there on a picture perfect summer evening, you hear the heavy sounds of traffic idling at the stop light in front of the house. Occasional music blares from a car stereo or a Harley or big truck rumbles past.

And yet it doesn't detract from the wonder of it. In fact, if anything, the city sounds enhance the secret loveliness of it all.

As an adult, I relish the nights I steal away from Denver and head north to that garden to sit in the company of my mom, drinking wine, giggling like school girls, and talking about anything and everything from the 2nd amendment to her creepy neighbor.

And if I ever had a friend in crisis who needed retreat, I would pack them up and whisk them away to that garden, hand them a book, a sweater, and a glass of wine and just let them be long enough to feel the magic working.

It works.

That's a guarantee.

Sunday, September 13, 2009

Fur Goodness (Sakes)

I no longer believe in coincidence.

Several weeks ago, Chris1 and I were talking about our favorite bands/albums of all time. I do not take these kinds of decisions lightly. Thus, for me to say The Psychedelic Furs and specifically the album Talk Talk Talk is in my top 5 all time favorite bands and albums is very serious business indeed.

However, I'd never seen them live.

The day after our discussion then, it was brought to my attention that The Psychedelic Furs would be playing the Boulder Theater on September 11 with The Happy Mondays. Coincidence? I think not.

So this Friday night, Chris, the good sport2, and I made the trip up to the show. And oh my! What a show.

First, The Happy Mondays were really very good. Except for one thing...Shaun Ryder, Love, you are a very very creepy man now. As in if-I-saw-you-within-100-yards-of-an-elementary-school-I'd-call-the-police kind of creepy3. The songs are so great though! I'd forgotten how much I liked them. And if the Furs hadn't played, I still would have felt as though I'd seen a good show.

Lucky for me, the Furs were there and they did play and now? Now I have a ginormous celebrity crush on Richard Butler. In fact, he shall receive an invitation to my Celebrity Crush Supper Party4. Watching him perform was like watching joy. He is so smiley and such fun to watch, I couldn't help but just beam at him the whole 90 minutes they played. Never mind that they didn't play Into You Like a Train or Until She Comes. They played so many other songs I love love love. And Butler's voice is still that same gritty, sensual, knee trembly voice I've loved for the last 2 and 1/2 decades.

Here's a promo video with interview and concert footage of one Mr. Butler and the band and hopefully you can see a bit of why I have a crush...



Both Chris and I were so very tired at the end of the night. We agreed the next show we go to must have chairs as we're too old now for standing only shows or grassy knoll shows5. But it was worth every minute of it...in my humble opinion.

1: The Potential...as in potential manfriend I've been dating for the last couple of months.


2: Chris worked an 11-hour shift and got no down time in between work and the show. He didn't get home until after 1. That is a very good sport.


3: By no means am I implying Mr. Ryder is a molester or a criminal at all. He simply is very creepy looking in a molester sort of way. Add sunglasses to this picture and this is what he looked like at the concert:











4: The Celebrity Crush Supper Party is my fantasy supper whereby all the guests are celebrities I love and they come together in adoration of me. The guest list includes: Richard Butler, David Sedaris, Seth Rogen, Jon Stewart, Stephen Colbert, Janeane Garafalo, Queen Latifah, Rachel Maddow, Charlize Theron, and Kate Winslet. I need one more for an even dozen (including myself).


5: Chris and I have now been to 3 shows together...The Guess Who where we sat on a grassy knoll at Hudson Gardens, The Spinners at the Taste of Colorado where there was no seating if you wanted to see, and now The Psychedelic Furs which was also standing only. I'm pretty certain we'd both pay extra to be able to sit down.