Just Spit It Out

Have you ever had anybody say to you, "We need to have a talk...but not right now"?

Yeah.

That precise thing happened to me last weekend.

It went something like this:

Talker: We need to have a talk.

Me: OK. I'm listening.

T: Oh, not right now. I need to collect my thoughts.

Me: Uhm. OK. Well...uhm...huh. You get back to me on that, k?

And here I am, a full week+ later, worrying about it.

Now normally I wouldn't worry about it because, you know, like, whatever.

But this person is uhm...well when this person needs to have a talk with someone, the talked to is nearly guaranteed a beating with the zen stick.

So, of course, I've been racking my brain for the last several days thinking, "What? Did I do something wrong?" And trying to come up with something I might have said or done to offend talk suggester to warrant said beating.

I got nothin'.

And it's making me nuts.